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How to get your life together (gently): 5 wellness habits that actually help

by Kylee Finck | Feb 26, 2026 | Student Guides, Wellness | 0 comments

Life is already chaotic. College life? Chaos with a syllabus.

Yes, this is “the best time of your life.” It’s also the most budget-stretching, sleep-deprived and schedule-juggling era you’ve experienced so far.

The good news? Getting your life together doesn’t mean a complete personality overhaul. Sometimes all it takes is just a few small, sustainable habits.

Here are five wellness upgrades that can make daily life feel at least 11% more manageable.

Start small: drink water

Person walking while drinking from their waterbottle
A student takes a swig of good ol' water. Image credit: Hunter Hastings

You’ve heard it before: drink 8-13 cups of water a day. That’s roughly the amount of water it takes to feel morally superior at the gym.

When the urge to make a Maverick run hits, remember: every Red Bull, Monster, or energy concoction comes with a later crash. Water doesn’t give you a dramatic spike, but it also doesn’t betray you during your hardest class at 3 p.m.

Hydration won’t solve all your problems, but it will:

  • Improve focus
  • Stabilize energy
  • Reduce headaches
  • Make you feel like you have at least one thing under control

It’s the lowest-effort, highest-return habit on this list.

Set boundaries (yes, you’re allowed)

Quiet zone sign in the library.
The third floor of the library is the ultimate boundary. Image credit: Hunter Hastings

It’s hard to say no – even to plans that sound about as exciting as watching paint dry. But overbooking yourself isn’t a personality trait; it’s a fast track to burnout.

Before committing, ask: Do I really have the energy or time for this right now? If the answer is no, that’s ok.

Also, let’s talk about the most underused feature on your phone: Do Not Disturb. It exists. It’s powerful. It can protect your sleep, your study time, and your sanity. Use it. Prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish – it’s maintenance. Schedule the walk. Schedule the gym. Schedule a healthy amount of couch rotting. Protect the time that helps you reset.

Practice gratitude (without being cringy about it)

Gratitude sounds cliché – until you try it.

Starting your day with a quick prayer of thanks or writing down three things you’re grateful for can make a genuine shift in your perspective. It trains your brain to look for good things rather than just deadlines and due dates.

Keeping a gratitude journal is surprisingly powerful. When you know you’re going to write something down later, you start noticing:

  • A kind text
  • A moment of quiet
  • A good parking spot
  • A professor who actually explains the assignment

"I started writing 5 good things that happen to me every day, you wouldn't believe how much more positive my life was all of a sudden," said Noah Wilde, a BYU-Idaho Social Work major.

You can even make your background something meaningful or set a reminder on your phone. Think of it as a gentle nudge that says, “There’s good here too.”

Step away from screens (at least sometimes)

Three men play pool.
A group of students play pool in the Crossroads. Image credit: Hunter Hastings

Your phone is helpful. It’s also aggressively distracting.

Try creating small “no phone” zones – your desk, your car, your bed, your classroom. Even one designated screen-free space can improve your focus dramatically.

And yes. We need to address it.

Delete the app.

You know which one. The one that steals an hour (or three) and gives you nothing but mild comparison and eye strain in return. If deleting feels extreme, at least remove it from your home screen. Make it inconvenient. Make it annoying.

Start small: 30 minutes of electronics-free time a day. Then build from there. Your attention span will thank you.

Do what actually makes you happy

Two students practice boxing.
Students box in the Hart martial arts gym. Image credit: Hunter Hastings

Stop filtering your personality for public approval.

If you love something, even if it’s absurd, niche, or mildly chaotic, lean into it. College is about more than building a resume; it’s about building a life you enjoy living.

"I used to be scared to try new things if it didn't seem cool to others," said Emily Littlefield, an Environmental Geoscience major at BYUI. "Now, all I worry about is whether it's something that makes me happy or not."

Make your self-care slightly unreasonable. Protect your peace aggressively. Schedule joy on purpose. Prioritize the people, the hobbies, and the moments that refill you instead of drain you. Commit to your growth. Commit to your goals. But most importantly, commit to your happiness.

Getting your life together doesn’t mean becoming perfect. It means developing small habits that make the chaos more manageable.

Start softly. Drink the water. Set the boundary. Delete the app.

You don’t need a complete reset, just a few upgrades.

  • Kylee Finck

    Kylee Finck is a communications major with a focus on Public Relations. She enjoys playing, watching, and coaching sports, and is always looking for ways to stay involved in the athletic community. When she's not doing homework, she enjoys finding new opportunities to get involved and meet new people.

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  • Hunter Hastings

    Hunter is a philosopher and dreamer. He loves enabling youth in Africa with the necessary education to make a difference in the world. He also spends his time trying to change how people see the world and making dinner for his sweetheart.

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